Thursday, April 24, 2008

Flying

The morning came around and I realized…IT’S CLEANING DAY!!! Gotta make sure Younger Son has picked up his room. (Our house wasn’t too bad, heck, nobody’s ever home!)

I go into wake him up (the little sweetie had remembered what day it was, and left me a note asking me to wake him.) and he hopped out of bed and finished his room. Then, we decided to do breakfast, together, alone. (Between our schedules, unfortunately, Younger Son and I don’t get to spend a lot of time alone together.)

It was fun. Refreshing. (Even though he was having trouble keeping his eyes open – I’m such an entertaining person!) I found out he has plans to move into an apartment with one of his friends, and yes, his dad already knows, he assures me.

Of course, that starts a barrage of questions. How much is your rent? How much was your deposit? Can you handle the electricity? What are you planning do to about furniture? Does it have washer and dryer hookups? No? Hmmmm. How long is your lease? Is Jack leaving Taylor in a bind, moving out with him and moving in with you? Oh…Taylor’s engaged? WHAT? You guys are too young for that! Oh, well. And we go on to other things, like school, flying, grades, other friends. And as usual, we have a good time.

Sounds like he’s done his homework concerning this upcoming move, and he’s even arranging for more hours at work. He's going to continue and finish his his college. Of course, his truck is paid for, and we only give him a nominal amount every month – he’s not a big spender.

I guess it’s time to let him fly. Which kind of sucks, seeing how he just moved in – I’ve really liked having him at our house. But he’s been craving this for a while, he’s 19 years old, almost twenty…and we can’t hold him back.

Fly free, Younger Son. Explore the world. Conquer. Do great things. Above all, keep your sense of self - and stay true to the One who has called you.

**sniff**

15 comments:

Pam said...

The hardest part is the letting go!

Pam said...

The hardest part is the letting go!

Bee Repartee said...

Sniff indeed...It's got to be sad and exciting all at the same time for you. :/

I have a few more years but it's coming too fast, you know?

Janie said...

Pam - I know, I know...

Bee - The time really just freakin' flies.

Snooty Primadona said...

Never fear Janie Dear! He doesn't have washer/dryer hookups. Surely you know what that means, lol. You'll get plenty of quality time when he comes by to do his duds.

Enjoy the peace and quiet.

Terri aka Pepsi's Mom said...

Janie, I just saw the most awesome movie tonight--College Road Trip! We laughed till we cried! But, it really has to do with them leaving home and letting go. Where does the time go?
Ya really need to see that movie-you'll be glad you have boys!

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i beati said...

What a healthy attitude you have - better than mine several years ago running after his car shouting I love you .. not really

Janie said...

Snooty - that's right! He will be coming back to do laundry! Now, to adjust my travel schedule accordingly...

Terri - I'll have to see that!

Sandy - I may do that, myself. This kid is truly a joy.

Rach said...

Glad you got to have breakfast with him. It's great when you are able to spend time with people you love.

Janie said...

Rach - it was fun!

In_spired said...

We all have to go through it...sooner or later. But that doesn't make it any easier...

doozie said...

dangit..I'm not looking forward to this time with walter

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